Out of the fore, but still in the frying pan

That's what I realized today! That I moved here to escape some of the trials of my and I realized that they followed me. I might have escaped some of the immediate dangers, but the longer term ones hid in a box and traveled the 1300 miles with me. I'm still broke, I'm still lonely, I'm still angry! And there's nothing I can do about it! And basing my decisions on the event doesn't have any sway at all over my current situation. What do I do now? I know my supposed limitless welcome is wearing out. I know that I'm starting to be a burden and I hate that! I have contemplated the idea of sending my son to stay with his dad for a little while, but it is absolutely out of the question. For starters, it would kill me for him to leave. Then there's the fact that his father is only partially present, and only at his own convenience. He is irresponsible in paying his child support, and I don't know where things stand with his girlfriend and her two kids. They may or may not be living with him. Either way, it's not a good environment for MY son!! What to do now????